My father found himself during WWII, in a platoon of Italian guys. In fact, he was maybe the only non-Italian. Marty was in that group and he and my dad spent the entire three-year-stint together, assigned to Africa and then France before finally coming home.
They became dear friends and stayed in touch until my dad died just over a year ago.
"Hey you fat, (bleep) slob" is how my father would begin every phone conversation with Marty, and I came, over the years, to understand just how lovingly those words were spoken.
Marty, now ninety, left me a voice mail message today:
"Well, I've been calling this number (meaning my dad)
for the last twenty years and old habits are hard to break.
Hope all is well there.
I can't help it; Ernie's been on my mind all day.
I can't help it; Ernie's been on my mind all day.
Stay well. Talk to you later.
Love ya. Ciao."
I returned the call but missed him. It's likely a good thing; I'm certain to have called him a fat, (bleep) slob.
Memorial Day 2012